I don't really know what to think about this tbh, since a lot of my Dom people are.....vehemently AGAINST Rhea (but then, they're also vehemently against DR and AR and are like, "DON'T YOU EVEN SPEAK OF THESE THINGS!!!!1111" in our slack and i'm just like "bruh, reading ain't never hurt nobody, chill" so....*shrug*) but all of the interactions i've ever had with her have been pretty damn good. She's been extraordinarily nice to me every time i've talked to her, so it's hard for me to see that she's this horrific person that everyone keeps painting her as. Also, i've encountered a helluva a lot more people on other petsites that are way, way worse than her, so it could just be that my "this person is shitty and you should never interact with them" bar has been set too high.
Most of what was linked was either hearsay --nons saying she did things with no link to evidence-- or just childishness on her part, not enough to be wary of just enough to ignore her, until the abuse dragons. *That* makes me want to stay the hell away from her regardless of whether she did any of the other things.
She projects a certain image on FR that doesn't really hold with what you see of her offsite, I feel. I remember the first time I found her Tumblr, I was shocked by the difference in demeanor.
(The closest I've ever come to interacting with her was in that Dom Watch trainwreck. After that I just blocked her on FR and more or less ignore her existence.)
People forget that this is how abusers can get away with things for so long, not putting her on that level but it is the same thing I see when actual proof an receipts do surface and people still want to defend with "they were never like that to me".
The shittiest people are the ones that cultivate their appearance to the point that they can really use it against again they decide to be shitty towards.
I was like this too when I only saw her on FR. I only knew her through things like the Swipp Pinglist. But then I saw her tumblr, which made me wary, but I still was okay. It was the Dom Watch incident that soured me on her. The fact that she used her influence to send tons of people to harass someone, especially over something so trivial, was the straw that broke the camel's back for me. That is not okay from anyone.
"The one that irked me the most was the Dom Watch thread wank. The OP of that thread dared to say that Nature was pushing and Rhea mobilized a bunch of people to spam the thread and harassing the OP and ended up getting it locked. (https://anonrising.dreamwidth.org/7399.html?thread=28085223 and https://anonrising.dreamwidth.org/7399.html?thread=28083175#cmt28083175 )"
IIRC rhea was the admin of this chat and didn't like when pisces entered. she sent jolinar to push her out the group and back into the main (there were two, #F_R and #FR)
Lol. Gucu was so far up Vera's butt that she could have told us what Vera had for dinner. Vera hasn't gotten around to whining about getting us banned yet. Can't milk it for sympathy if you kill the lolcow, can you?
no that happened in the main irc. pisces never went to rheas irc, since it was specifically made by rhea so she didnt have to be around pisces because she was abusing her op powers
pisces/vera/locus here, the person you are talking about, please please please stop
it shows rhea's people are pricks, i know rhea is a prick, but this is such old drama and i wish to move on from it and not have to think about it anymore
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)Re: WANKER THREAD
(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)Most of what was linked was either hearsay --nons saying she did things with no link to evidence-- or just childishness on her part, not enough to be wary of just enough to ignore her, until the abuse dragons. *That* makes me want to stay the hell away from her regardless of whether she did any of the other things.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)(The closest I've ever come to interacting with her was in that Dom Watch trainwreck. After that I just blocked her on FR and more or less ignore her existence.)
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-20 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)The shittiest people are the ones that cultivate their appearance to the point that they can really use it against again they decide to be shitty towards.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 12:30 am (UTC)(link)DA
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 03:28 am (UTC)(link)http://pastebin.com/SvydcmMP
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 04:19 am (UTC)(link)not rhea
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 04:24 am (UTC)(link)thats some other drama though
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 06:34 am (UTC)(link)it shows rhea's people are pricks, i know rhea is a prick, but this is such old drama and i wish to move on from it and not have to think about it anymore
she does plenty of other stupid things