Meta is Metoidioplasty- it's basically a surgery option that's less invasive and cheaper than a phalloplasty. http://www.metoidioplasty.net/ has a lot of good info- as well as resources, if your bf needs them!
Don't be TOO afraid to ask- you can't know what his boundaries are if you avoid the subject all together- then he might think you're just as wary of his junk as he is!
A good way to ask if he's had, or is considering any bottom surgery might be to show him the Rod, or the transthetic pieces- that way you can gently level the question if the Rod or the EZP might work better for him, without directly asking "So what's the situation with your junk."
If he hasn't had surgery, or mentions he's considering it, offer your support. Tell him you've got his back, no matter what he chooses, and that you'll help him with aftercare, should he decide to do so. My gf will be visiting to help take care of me after my top surgery, and knowing that I'll have my loving gf tend to me after such a huge milestone makes me feel like she's really in this for the long haul. (I'm actually going to propose to her next year :X) I'm pretty sure he'd appreciate the gesture as well!
As far as above the waist touching, it doesn't have to just be the sensation! I fully admit when my gf told me she will love running her fingers over my future scars and telling me how beautiful they'll be, it made me giddy. Also, you could always do some ear/neck biting ;D
Also, if he just doesn't want anything sexual, maybe try some body massages, while telling him how much you like his features. Sensuality plus praise is a good way to instil trust and good associations with your touch!
You're SO very welcome, and I hope things work out!
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(Anonymous) 2016-07-28 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)Meta is Metoidioplasty- it's basically a surgery option that's less invasive and cheaper than a phalloplasty. http://www.metoidioplasty.net/ has a lot of good info- as well as resources, if your bf needs them!
Don't be TOO afraid to ask- you can't know what his boundaries are if you avoid the subject all together- then he might think you're just as wary of his junk as he is!
A good way to ask if he's had, or is considering any bottom surgery might be to show him the Rod, or the transthetic pieces- that way you can gently level the question if the Rod or the EZP might work better for him, without directly asking "So what's the situation with your junk."
If he hasn't had surgery, or mentions he's considering it, offer your support. Tell him you've got his back, no matter what he chooses, and that you'll help him with aftercare, should he decide to do so. My gf will be visiting to help take care of me after my top surgery, and knowing that I'll have my loving gf tend to me after such a huge milestone makes me feel like she's really in this for the long haul. (I'm actually going to propose to her next year :X) I'm pretty sure he'd appreciate the gesture as well!
As far as above the waist touching, it doesn't have to just be the sensation! I fully admit when my gf told me she will love running her fingers over my future scars and telling me how beautiful they'll be, it made me giddy. Also, you could always do some ear/neck biting ;D
Also, if he just doesn't want anything sexual, maybe try some body massages, while telling him how much you like his features. Sensuality plus praise is a good way to instil trust and good associations with your touch!
You're SO very welcome, and I hope things work out!